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Greg Paskill

You're on to something when observing that social media gives us more ways to connect to the point that we can easily neglect the face-to-face networking.


To some extent, that's disturbing. I've heard of studies where some people do not know the social graces of approaching somebody, extending handshakes, waiting for the right moment to speak, etc.

Staying online can make you seem like you're connecting when you're not. Like another study pointed out, you may have 5,000 friends on Facebook yet how many of those can you call to help you change a flat tire?

The little dirty secret of online social media? You can avoid dealing with the Rejection Factor! That's the one thing that stops many from forming face-to-face connections. Getting rejected in person takes far more courage than being denied an online "be my friend" request.

Add to that the escalating forms of rudeness throughout society, where surly clerks don't even want to know your name, where people are too busy at the gym or street listening to your iPod, and no wonder you'll lean more towards online acceptance.

Well, I now must go the real world and face more rejection. Like one book says, "Reject Me! I Love It!"

Paul Copcutt - Square Peg

One more book to add to the recommended reading list - and can get you networking in just a few hours - Jeffrey Gitomer - Little Black Book of Connections - bite size wisdom on authentic networking.
Just my toonies worth.

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