6 Ways to Practice Positive Presence

Just last Spring, driving from Dallas to San Antonio, we went from clear and sunny weather to a patch of snow lasting 10 miles — then back to a bright, sunny sky. In the blink of an eye, we had to adapt. Isn’t that what happens with ANY change? It can happen just that fast, unannounced. At work you might find yourself being downsized, right sized, wrong sized or resized. Whatever the size – you’re forced out of your comfort zone. And pressed to adapt. Now how do you show your leadership presence? When chaos happens, it may be more challenging to keep emotions intact. This is when you’re on center stage and grace under fire really matters. This is when people look to leadership to right the ship, give direction, and trust the messages you send. As Jim Rohn said, “You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.” Take heed of these Practical Presence Positives … [Read more...]

Show Presence & Brand Your Elevator Pitch Part Two

In our last post, Show Your Presence and Brand Your Elevator Pitch covered why you need a compelling elevator pitch and how to deliver it with impact. Part Two continues with more tips. Steps and Suggestions: 1. Begin with a handshake and a smile. 2. Then the hook - a statement that gets and holds the listener's attention... like, "I'm a team player you can count on for that winning play in the final minutes of the game." 3. Tell not only what you do, but how you do it - and be enthusiastic. 4. How does what you do benefit your customers/clients. 5. Make your request - a business card, an appointment, etc. Watch my video, Brand With a Strong Elevator Pitch for more info. Examples of quick openings: "I’m the guy behind the scenes that makes sure when you order something, it gets to you on time. I love being on the logistics team - making things happen." "I manage a team of scientists who design drugs for very rare diseases and make a difference in people’s … [Read more...]

Show Presence & Brand Your Elevator Pitch

In only seconds what can you tell someone about yourself? That’s what you must do for your "elevator pitch" -- make it brief enough to deliver on an elevator ride but concise enough to have an impact! The result? Your executive presence will be unforgettable! A well-written (and memorized) elevator pitch is an invaluable tool as you brand yourself because: It describes what you do, for whom, and how they benefit. It allows you to introduce yourself, quickly and efficiently. It emphasizes the Wow! factors that you bring to the table. It opens doors and invites new opportunities. Although there are no "right" or "wrong" lengths, your pitch should be short. Just enough to get the other person curious and wanting to know more. That will lead to what's called CONVERSATION! Isn’t that the point?! The main objective is to make every word count. Your elevator pitch will (and should) evolve just as your brand evolves. What's perfect today will be different in the future … [Read more...]

Build Your Network and Increase Your Happiness: Three Tips for Increasing Happiness by Building your Personal Brand

Dr. Oz was on the “Today” show this week talking about what he calls “drive-by” relationships where people merely rely on social media to connect with others. I believe people should use social media as a means to an end, with the end goal being a face-to-face experience. True friendships are founded on personal interaction, not just clicking on Like, Friend, Follow or Connect on Facebook, LinkedIn or Twitter. If you want people to invest in you, you have to invest in them. Dr. Oz also stated that women, especially, can feel lonely and depressed even if they have tons of friends on social media. I think that’s because people tend to paint a really happy and overly optimistic picture of their lives online whereas in real life, things aren’t always so hunky dory. When you connect face-to-face with another person, your brain receives a boost of serotonin and oxytocin, two chemicals that make you feel good and increase your feelings of optimism and happiness. Interacting through a … [Read more...]

Be Insanely Transparent

The summer was packed with fun activities and attending social events. As I watched people mix and mingle, I observed how they engaged in conversation. Some seemed to talk, just to talk — and often about themselves — what they were doing, and what they were planning. Here’s what struck me. It’s obvious when someone is engaging or just making verbal noise. Let’s be real. Strong brands have no problem showing up authentically. They realize that trying to be inauthentic takes waaaay too much effort. Here’s how to stay authentically comfortable in your own skin. 1. Care about making connections. Connections happen emotionally. When you hit on a topic that has meaning for the other person; when you share something about yourself that resonates with someone else; when you care enough to have relevant discussion. It’s not that difficult. Just put yourself in the other person’s shoes and consider what might having meaning to that person. It’s not all about you…at least not for making … [Read more...]